Infidelity II

 

Infidelity is the underlying factor in every broken marriage or relationship.

That is why, when you get married, there is an oath.

What is an oath?

It is a sacrilege, an act, a sacred ceremony of oneness. You become like-minded, both radiating the same frequency. However, when you join yourself to a third party, a fourth party, or a fifth party, disharmony is introduced.

Some couples are seemingly able to cope with this challenge. They maintain a happy front outwardly, but there is war within.

The partner being cheated on, yet who chooses to stay, either cheats back or turns a blind eye and focuses on career, children, or the benefits gained from the marriage—career enhancement, financial security, status, companionship, and so on.

Everything is energy and vibration. When there is interference in the harmony of synchronization, the couple begins to fight, argue, and drift apart.

Love and affection become misplaced.

However, when both parties make up their minds—not out of perfection, but out of love, values, and discipline—to be faithful and loyal to each other regardless of the many options available, they truly become one and experience God’s most beautiful design for marriage.

Infidelity strikes at the very center of the family. Parents are the binding cords of the home. When they introduce instability, everything crumbles.

Infidelity breaks the family, the family breaks society, and society breaks nations.

The root of this menace is infidelity. To curb such dysfunction, infidelity and sexual promiscuity must be curbed.

Everything operates on cause and effect.

If you are subconsciously trained by movies, trends, and circumstances to be sexually promiscuous, infidelity becomes inevitable. One’s present sexual promiscuity determines the uncertainty of the future of one’s children. In many cases, divorce becomes almost guaranteed.

So how do you manage infidelity?

It starts with you. What are your values? Make up your mind that you will not be sexually loose—not for anyone, but for yourself. That way, it becomes easier to stay faithful when the right partner comes into your life.

Be open with your partner. Tell the truth.

Decide to change. Share with your partner the attraction and attention you receive outside. This creates a mental defense mechanism.

You may enjoy variety for the thrill of it, but is it worth gambling with the future of your family?

This article aims to create awareness of the dangers and consequences of infidelity. The cost is simply too great.

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