Obsession: The Fire That Consumes
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The Feeling
It’s the sting in the throat.
The panic in their absence.
The need for control.
The urge to hold on to something —
Someone that was never yours.
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The Fantasy of Obsession
It’s about the pleasure that the illusion brings: the illusion of love, ownership, conquest, and inseparability.
The illusion of unity, of togetherness, when in truth you live alone in your dream house.
The reality you see is one only you have access to. This makes you function at an unhealthy frequency towards a vision or individual.
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The Fire That Consumes
It’s never love; it’s the need for acceptance and recognition disguised as affection.
Obsession begins as a spark, a harmless flicker of curiosity or admiration. It often disguises itself as passion, persistence, or love. But left unchecked, that spark grows into a flame that consumes everything in its path, leaving reason, balance, and peace in ashes.
At its core, obsession is the mind’s fixation on a single idea, person, or pursuit. It takes root when desire crosses the line of moderation, when wanting becomes needing, and when attention turns into dependency.
It’s not simply about what we love; it’s about what we cannot let go of.
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Dedication vs. Obsession
People often mistake obsession for dedication.
Dedication fuels growth; it’s disciplined, balanced, and guided by purpose.
Obsession, however, distorts perception. It blinds us to boundaries, makes us ignore warning signs, and pushes us to chase something even when it harms us.
It’s like drinking salt water: the more we consume, the thirstier we become.
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Obsession in Relationships
In relationships, obsession can be the silent destroyer.
It disguises itself as affection, but it’s rooted in control and fear — the fear of loss, of inadequacy, of being unseen.
It creates dependency so strong that one’s identity begins to dissolve in the other. What started as love soon becomes possession.
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Obsession in Ambition
In ambition, obsession can drive achievement, but at a price.
It whispers that rest is weakness and that satisfaction is failure.
It burns bridges, isolates hearts, and turns joy into anxiety.
The dreamer becomes trapped in their own pursuit.
This reminds one of Adolf Hitler.
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The Cure for Obsession
The cure for obsession lies in awareness; in learning to distinguish between passion and fixation.
It’s found in balance, in the courage to step back, to breathe, and to remind oneself that control is not love, and desire is not destiny.
Sometimes, the greatest strength lies not in holding on, but in letting go; in choosing peace over pursuit.
Because what truly belongs to you never demands that you lose yourself to have it.
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When Love Forgets Its Limits
Obsession: when love, passion, or ambition forgets its limits, and consumes the soul that once gave it life.
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Identifying Obsession
Obsession is destructive; love is constructive.
You find yourself doing more harm than good — isolating, sabotaging, feeding your prey with lies just to keep them within your perimeter.
Love, on the other hand, nurtures, builds, protects, and liberates.
It’s not possessive; it’s not limiting.
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The Cure
The obsessed ones never know they are obsessed.
It’s when they’ve murdered the ones they claimed to love, burnt the cities they once swore to protect, and destroyed everything they’ve known as exclusive and significant — that’s when they realize their misdeeds.
Anyone can be a victim of obsession... but you can also deprive it.
Regulate your feelings, your fantasies, and your predatory behavioral tendencies.
Have an independent mindset of self-sufficiency.
There’s an illusion that makes one believe he or she can’t exist without the other.
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Are You Stuck in an Obsessive Pattern?
Be it your love life, career field, or social life: an obsessed individual could go to any length to draw attention, negative or positive, to himself or herself.
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